ALL ABOUT POSSESSIVENESS

Some people call It a form of love……..
Some people call it a form of trustlessness….
Some call it a form of suspicion and doubtfulness …….
But I call it my own way….. as follows
A relationship will be an epitome for many only when you have the fidelity and staunchness or the so called “possessiveness” ostensible to each other involved in that relationship.
“The Creative impulses of Humans are always at war with the possessive impulses as said by some one
Many have the misconceived notion that it starts only when we reach the adolescence but its not so…… even a 2 year old baby can feel the pain of possessiveness when the baby’s mom lifts some other baby or when her attention shifts to the baby’s own sibling … That’s because of the possession towards its mom…
So why is it so very special or given utmost importance when it comes to a boy –gal relationship ???
This question keeps on reverberating and oscillating in my mind for quite some time that’s the reason why I am penning down this post….
This word “possessiveness” has a special meaning and adds flavor and beauty to its usage only when it depicts or when it is being used for describing a Boy –Girl Relationship aint it guys and gals ???
Does it add beauty just because of the opposite gender attraction ?? may be yes for the people who doesn’t know or who had not been involved in such relationships in their lives
Unanimously a guy or girl is supposed to be the luckiest and happiest of the whole lot when they are being celebrated or enjoyed as the proudest possession of his girl or her boy respectively…. .
It can never be thought or considered as trustlessness or suspicion or doubtfulness because its just a way or form of showing your love or a just a petty feel which is unique and versatile which can never be shown to many but only one … the one and only person you adore the most in your life .
The most interesting thing about this possessiveness apart from adding beauty to a relationship is that
Only a small dose of expressing your steadfastness could be much effective whereas the over dosage of it will ultimately spoil the broth and the party as well :P
May be this very topic need not be this much lengthy and gluttonous ...

but I just felt like penning it down just because I had been affected or I could say I had been hit by this very word and feel umpteenth times in my life but pertaining to only one …

To sum up … possessiveness not only takes you to cloud nine ,blissfulness or seventh heaven on the wrong side it leads to extreme expectations … and many a times it not just hurts you to the core but it even killssss ………. Aint it ??????? Catch u all in ma next post.... have a great time ahead......

JOURNEY INTO MY SECOND PHASE OF LIFE -"THE JOB" !!

The journey into my second phase of life called “Job “ started by this 10^th of august, when I started to “Bengaluru – The Electronic city” and I have my own name to this beautiful busy city “The City of MultiLinguals” J I started by 1pm from Madurai in the most luxurious kpn travels with my mom J I was messaging my best friend all throughout the travel so some how I was able to kill time all the way J All throughout the travel I had some mixed feelings of going out to a new city out of tamil nadu for the very first time and missing my home and the food L my extreme would be all alone without me L I wonder how bad the condition of my bike would have gone all these days without having started it even once . hope my extreme would be in its pink of health JThe Roaming phobia was panicking me all throughout the journey until I reached the TN border near hosur,Unfortunately team india was fumbling at the other end against England mishra was playing the sheer role of a perfect “NightWatchman” despite india being bundled out for a meager sum L Even Sachin disappointed me while I was leaving away from my hometown L After some 10 to 15 kms away from hosur the roaming charges for messages and even for incoming calls had started and I never took into consideration and still continued to call and message my dear ones till I reached the outskirts of the garden city J “It was evident from the name boards and the number plates of the vehicle that I had reached the garden city J it was KA all over the number plates of all the vehicles and I never saw a single TN number plate till now hard to digest but it happens L “we call these kind of scripts as “JILAEBI” usually and saw those scripts lively for the very first time on its own native land J At around 9pm I reached the shanthi nagar bus depot where I had my “Chithi” waiting to pick us up J It was quite a rainy day and I felt the breezy cool weather of banglore for the very first time when I stepped out of the bus and when the air touched me J It took some one hour from there to reach my grand mother’s home J The unusual coincidence of that apartment was that It had the name of my best friend engraved in it J it brought me a big smile and I was very happy for that J and loved the way it all happened J Then the usual Johnson lift was lifting me and my mom to the 5^th floor of that block J It was astonishing to see such an luxurious apartment J The temperature cud have been somewhere around 16 to 20 degrees that night J Instead of fans and AC ‘s room heaters and geysers were power consuming in this city I guess J I had a warm welcome from my thatha and paati whom I met last time ages back J then had a good local dinner with some local greek and latin side dish J Then switched ma lap on and started messaging my dear ones through way2sms as I was completely ran out of balance that day L I badly needed a local sim but I was totally disappointed to see all the shops had already been closed L my chithi promised me that she wud buy me a local sim the next day J it was words of solace for a boy like me who was missing all his friends and family and who was feeling desolated J Finally I called it a day by editing my profile in facebook J changed now lives in madurai to BENGALURU J though found it quite tough to sleep early that day I was forced to sleep by my tired exhausted body and the hectic travel at around 3 am L Just a day was remaining for my first day in the office and for the first day in my life as an employee as well as a corporate J I thank the almighty for penning down an eventful day in my life which taught me the pain of separation , pain of desolation and what not ??????????? L L LJJJ

A STRENUOUS TRIP TO SAMANAR PADUGAI – PART-3

  

Self timer snap :)


Railings that badly need a Reinforcement :(



                                                                                                                                           we started  clicking snaps all over with the cameras we  brought J “Majority of the Humans love taking and posing for  photographs aint  it ?? infact I love photographs J because I have read that “Photos and memories will never ever change despite people in the photos and their characters change J in the midst of the rocks there was a huge tree J suddenly we moved from jainism to Buddhism and personified it as the “Bodh @ budd gaya “ and were cracking jokes as if we were enlightened by then J Vicky and vijayan went even higher for seeing stupas over there. Me ,bala and navanee cudn move an inch further as were thirsty to the core L we sat down talking happily J for a change the disguise in the blessing there was that we could spot numerous broken beer bottles all over L which spoiled the serenity and the beauty of that place L The disgusting fact is that people started using this beautiful tourist spot as a spot for boozing L it’s a wake up call for the archaeological department and  department of tourism in tamil nadu  to protect our “ENCHANTING TAMILNADU AND INCREDIBLE INDIA “ J We started crawling up without slippers for better grip and friction … thanks to the auto timer option in the camera which  captured all 5 of us by itself inside its frame J finally with utmost joy and enthusiasm we started moving down with the help of the railings again J The railings already had few cracks to it L The railings badly need a reinforcement and a renovation now…  Finally we came down with the same spirit with which we went up J we badly needed litres of water all together to lessen our thirst and finally we reduced our thirst to some extent and got  back to life only after drinking two bottles of bovonto all together J The “SAMANAR PADUGAI TRIP “ was indeed a strenuous trip but nevertheless it gave us  the most cherishable and memorable trekking experience in our life time J  meet u all in ma next trip guys J happy reading J 



A Happy Four :) Myself,Navanee,Vjn and Vicky :)



A STRENUOUS TRIP TO SAMANAR PADUGAI – PART-2



An Overview of Madurai from Samanar padugai


Sculptures carved over there :)




 Sabarees was called by his parents and so he couldn make it up to the hills with us. He got down near Apollo hospital signal and we went on to reach the hills. In the down hills there was a beautiful temple Which had Sculptures of marvelous statues in it. Opposite to the temple there was pond which was full of lotus. We saw a Boy Fishing in that pond. Suddenly we wanted that to be photographed by vicky’s fuji film 14mp or bala’s nokia 5mp but unfortunately the zoom couldn go that long in both the devices and we managed to get only a blurred image of the boy who was fishing. We started off walking to the hills on that scorching noon at around 1.35 pm. We were walking with the help of railings on both the sides which aided us by providing its grip to walk on the steep hills .. thanks to the Archaeological department without which we would not have got these railings installed .. the pathway was quite steep and inclined and we found it quite difficult to walk on further despite we continued with sheer perseverance and wit to reach the top of the hill which no one of us have ever visited before. After some 10 minutes of walk we had climbed some 100 steps with the help of those railings… The steps were beautifully carved on the rocks of the hills I wonder how they did that with such an ease… in between we had a short 10 to 15 meters distance which had to be covered without those steps… we found It quite hard infact I found it very difficult to move on those wonky pathway as I was deprived of sleep the previous night and as I was driving the car for some few hours with an ailing leg trouble L alas we reached the halfway mark were we had a stunning visual treat at an height of some 200 meters above land level a very long truck which was travelling in the nearby bypass road seemed as though it was a toy truck which could be very easily held in our palm J finally we reached the destined place for which started off J there was a huge rock which had been protected with a fence made of iron rods behind which you could see some mind blowing artistic sculptures of sages belonging to Jainism … there was a small region beneath those sculptures filled with stagnant water all over which had became the habitat for few frogs and fishes J
 

A STRENUOUS TRIP TO SAMANAR PADUGAI :) JULY 16 :) PART-1

This was an unexpected and an extempore trip all together.We were all travelling from Sivagangai to Madurai in the morning from Sathish's house with the recently serviced maruthi 800 of my aunt .

We include Myself, Bala,Navanee,Vicky,Vijayan and sabarees. After some 55 minutes of a slow and steady drive we reached the outskirts of madurai in that mildly breezy and rainy afternoon :) Suddenly bala was asking me if we could go to that samanar padugai near naagamalai pudukkottai as we reached madurai bit earlier than the scheduled time ... within a blink i agreed and all the others came to a consensus for that short trip on the trot ... we started moving through the busy city of madurai on that suddenly changed scorchy afternoon which was breezy quite before ... We were having a bumpy ride all throughout our trip despite riding in the so called "National highways" :) Alas with the help of an Auto Driver we traced and spotted out the correct route to the hills despite the deviation we had initially :) The road that diverged to the hills from the highways was rickety to the core and the car wheels started wobbling badly as we neared the hills. A Sudden Speed Breaker hit our car's chassis badly which sounded like the chassis being thrashed by a hammer :( My heart beats rose as high as it could and I had a wonky feel after hitting the chassis hard :( The chassis and the silencer were quite newly fixed spending some 4k just a month before :( It took me few seconds to regain ma conscious and strength after it was hit badly :) Later I pulled some energy out and continued to drive ... finally we spotted the down hills just a few hundred metres away. After a sharp curve around a banyan tree we reached the down hills of samanar padugai... astonishingly the place was deserted and there were only a handful of humans visible... (contd... in PART 2)

DEIVATHIRUMAGAL - MA VERDICT :)

This is ma first post in ma blog :) jus to see how it works :) I jus dont wanna reveal the plot and break the suspense of many souls who are desperate enough to watch it badly :) Director Vijay has penned down a script sorry photo copied the script :P from the holly wood block buster "I AM SAM "!! but neverthless he never agrees it :( he jus says he took the casting alone :) GV .Prakash the "so called second hero of the movie" has done a fabulous job unless u hear an old robin  hood cartoon's music :) but neverthless his BGM at the slog was indeed breezy and stupendous :) Obviously vikram does and gives his best as usual :) vikram is a better actor than sean penn no issues here :) GV could even tell that the songs are his inspirations and not copied ones but when an inspiration or the ripping off gets this much response then think about the original score which was done ages back with no boasting and  commercial kick off  :) Despite all these controversies his music made us cry :) Hats off to the original score and GV's shuffle at the edge :) baby sara was the cutie pie of the movie :) she plunders your heart in many ocassions as kids usually does :) there comes in director vijay's touch :) Dialogues played a vital role in the movie vijay has given his best here :) Anushka does a character role here this proves her acting potential rather than her glamour potential :) santhanam is at his very best :) his timing in this movie were exquisite :) Hats off to director Vijay for giving a very decent movie despite having two most gorgeous heroines :) Amla paul does her role to perfection :) 
GV : THINK MUSIC was the label i guess but i reckon u never would have thought tamilians
to be this brilliant to have found the original score jus like that :)
VJ  : may it be a rehash or remake but this fellow deserves a standing ovation for making us cry :)
FINAL VERDICT : MAY IT BE A COPY OR REHASH OR REMAKE BUT STILL           
DEIVATHIRUMAGAL IS WORTH A DOZEN WATCH  :)