Some people call It a form of love……..Some people call it a form of trustlessness….
Some call it a form of suspicion and doubtfulness …….
But I call it my own way….. as follows
A relationship will be an epitome for many only when you have the fidelity and staunchness or the so called “possessiveness” ostensible to each other involved in that relationship.
“The Creative impulses of Humans are always at war with the possessive impulses as said by some one
Many have the misconceived notion that it starts only when we reach the adolescence but its not so…… even a 2 year old baby can feel the pain of possessiveness when the baby’s mom lifts some other baby or when her attention shifts to the baby’s own sibling … That’s because of the possession towards its mom…
So why is it so very special or given utmost importance when it comes to a boy –gal relationship ???
This question keeps on reverberating and oscillating in my mind for quite some time that’s the reason why I am penning down this post….
This word “possessiveness” has a special meaning and adds flavor and beauty to its usage only when it depicts or when it is being used for describing a Boy –Girl Relationship aint it guys and gals ???
Does it add beauty just because of the opposite gender attraction ?? may be yes for the people who doesn’t know or who had not been involved in such relationships in their lives
Unanimously a guy or girl is supposed to be the luckiest and happiest of the whole lot when they are being celebrated or enjoyed as the proudest possession of his girl or her boy respectively…. .
It can never be thought or considered as trustlessness or suspicion or doubtfulness because its just a way or form of showing your love or a just a petty feel which is unique and versatile which can never be shown to many but only one … the one and only person you adore the most in your life .
The most interesting thing about this possessiveness apart from adding beauty to a relationship is that
Only a small dose of expressing your steadfastness could be much effective whereas the over dosage of it will ultimately spoil the broth and the party as well :P
May be this very topic need not be this much lengthy and gluttonous ...
but I just felt like penning it down just because I had been affected or I could say I had been hit by this very word and feel umpteenth times in my life but pertaining to only one …
To sum up … possessiveness not only takes you to cloud nine ,blissfulness or seventh heaven on the wrong side it leads to extreme expectations … and many a times it not just hurts you to the core but it even killssss ………. Aint it ??????? Catch u all in ma next post.... have a great time ahead......
